January 9th, 2012

Do Cloth Nappies Damage Baby’s Hips?

by NappyLadyUK

A common question I get asked by first time cloth nappy users is: Does the extra bulk of a cloth nappy effect baby’s hip development?

The answer is NO!

Cloth nappies keep a newborns hips slightly wider apart than disposables do but this is actually the optimum position for a newborn. When a baby is born their hip joints haven’t fully developed and at birth and at their 6/8 week check the Doctor will check for “clicky hips” or hip dysplasia.   If baby has clicky hips they often need to wear a pavlik hip harness. This harness keeps their legs wider apart so that the hip ball and socket joint are held in a deeper position and can develop properly. This usually helps prevent the need for hip operations later on.

Cloth nappies don’t hold the hips in as wide a position as a hip harness but the extra width and support cloth nappies provide can sometimes prevent the need for a hip harness at all. In the past hip dysplasia was treated by putting the child in 2 bulky terry squares at a time to achieve the wider leg position.

One of my recent customers Kirstie has written about her experience with clicky hips.

“We had already decided our son would use cloth nappies before he arrived and we purchased a complete nappy system from Wendy during antenatal. He stared wearing them after the meconium had been passed out his system.
In his fifth week he was diagnosed as having a “clicky hip” and he required a Pavlik harness. We were reassured to learn from the paediatrician that the cloth nappies had been helping to keep his hips in a better position compared to the thinner disposable nappies. At first it was tricky to weave the nappys’ velcro fastenings through and underneath the harness straps, but after a couple of days we were changing nappies fairly expertly. We had a few leakages at first as the harness was keeping his legs wide open but as soon as his thighs bulked up the seal around the legs was tighter and no more accidents.
He is now four months old, and was only in the harness for 7 weeks. We are happy knowing that the cloth nappies are still augmenting his hip joints.
We regularly receive positive comments about using cloth nappies, and we are really pleased that we made the decision to use them.”

Once baby is also cruising and walking their bottoms and backs will thank you for choosing cloth. Learning to walk requires a lot of falling too. The impact (especially on hard floors) is softened by the fluffy padding of their nappies. I know i’d certainly prefer to fall over with a thick layer covering my bottom than just thin trousers!

For more benefits of Cloth Nappies see our article “Advantages of Cloth Nappies.”

Wendy

www.thenappylady.co.uk
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December 18th, 2011

by bankier
November 17th, 2011

Earth Friendly Baby Toiletries

by NappyLadyUK

A few years back i became aware of studies that showed the SLS (Sodium Lauryl Sulphate) and Parabens found in many cosmetics and toiletries could be bad for your health. I’ve since read that there have also been studies that have found them to be safe to use. So are they or aren’t they safe? I really don’t know but when it comes to my own children i’ve decided to be precautionary and use natural products where possible. There are many examples in history where we’ve been told something is safe and then years later it’s been proven to cause something nasty.

So what are these chemicals and what might they do?

SLS (Sodium Lauryl Sulphate)
This is frequently used in shower gels and shampoos to make them foam up. It can however be a skin irritant. Prolonged exposure can also make skin problems worse for individuals with sensitive skin. SLS can also be absorbed into the skin and can mimic the activity of the hormone Oestrogen

Parabens
Parabens are used as preservatives in cosmetics. Parabens can also mimic the female hormone Oestrogen. Evidence suggests that a lifetimes increased exposure to oestrogen is linked to an increase in the risk of breast cancer and has an adverse impact on male reproductive functions.

It’s not always easy to find products which don’t contain any hidden “nasties.” They might be free of one sort and have something else instead. For our children I use the Earth Friendly Baby (and now the Earth Friendly Kids) range. These are mild and gentle on their delicate skin, only contain natural/organic ingredients. They are hypoallergenic so great for the sensitive skin of our middle child.  They contain no artificial colouring, or artificial fragrances, no SLS or parabens. They are also not tested on animals and approved by the Vegetarian Society. Pretty good credentials compared to your a “normal” kids bathroom products.

These can now be found on the site in the new “We Also Love…” section.

Wendy Richards

www.thenappylady.co.uk

October 27th, 2011

Totsbots Nappies

by NappyLadyUK

 

TotsBots Triumphs Again  

TotsBots are both thrilled and honoured to have received the top accolade in the Prima Baby & Pregnancy’s Reader’s Award 2011, voted by consumers in the Reusable Nappy Category.

There were two awards in the category; Platinum for the winners and Gold for the runners up, so TotsBots were delighted to receive the most votes to secure the prestigious Platinum award.

Now in their 10th Anniversary Year, TotsBots are proud to be the leading manufucturer of reusable nappies in the UK and continue to go from strength to strength.

The entire Totsbots range can be found on our site. http://www.thenappylady.co.uk/productGalleryBrand.asp?mfgID=TotsBots

Wendy Richards

www.thenappylady.co.uk

 

October 17th, 2011

Wizard Nappy Reviews – Part 1 Wizard Duo

by NappyLadyUK

The new Wizard range consists of the Wizard Duo all in two, Wizard Uno all in one and the Wizard Easystuff pocket nappy.  Motherease is a very well respected cloth nappy brand and just as I expected the Wizard nappies have performed exceptionally well.

Wizard Duo
The Wizard Duo is an all in two nappy system. This is a fairly new class of nappy and is somewhere between a two part system (nappy and separate wrap) and an all in one (wrap and nappy permanently sewn together). The Wizard Duo outer wraps come in different sizes, xs 8-12lbs, small 10-18lbs, medium 18-27lbs and large 27-35lbs. This makes the system more expensive however it also means there is no compromise on fit as there is with a birth to potty wrap.  The Wizard wraps only come in popper fastening however I find them to be very adjustable and I didn’t have any problems getting a snug fit.  The poppers on the nappy tabs are positioned vertically above each other (just like the Bumgenius range), this makes an extremely secure fastening far more secure in my opinion than nappies that have horizontal off set popper positions.

With the Wizard Duo you have a choice of nappy insert sizes. Either xs/sx 8-18lbs, med/large 18-35lbs or the onesize 10-35lbs (onesize doesn’t fit inside the xs wrap). The sized inserts make the neatest nappies however the Onesize offer the best value. For most people starting cloth nappies from birth i’d expect them to use xs/sm inserts and then more onto the med/large size. If you’re looking for a birth to potty system then i’d suggest using muslins until 10lbs and then moving onto the onesize insert.

Not only do you get a choice of insert size but there are choices of nappy fabric too. These are Staydry Regular (daytime), Staydry Nighttime, Bamboo and Cotton. The Staydry is AMAZING and my favourite. Everytime my baby used this nappy it was COMPLETELY dry to the touch and the first few times i though she hadn’t wet it at all even though she definitely had. The only way I could tell she had actually wet it was that it felt heavier than a dry unused pad. The Staydry layer also had another benefit, she’s currently teething badly and has very acidic wee, this has led to her developing nappy rash on an off just before the tooth pops through. However whenever i’ve used the staydry inserts she didn’t get a rash at all and her skin started to heal. Over night her wee is particularly strong, however using the staydry night time inserts next to her skin have been wonderful and no sign of a rash at all.  If you’ve ever struggled to use cloth during teething you should really try these staydry nappies! The Bamboo inserts are very soft, very absorbent and cheaper than the staydry inserts but do not have a stay dry layer so baby will feel wet, they are also the slowest drying insert (24hours+). The cotton inserts are the cheapest, average drying speed (overnight) but the lowest absorbency. The bamboo and cotton fabric is the same that is used with their famous Motherease Onesize Nappy. If you are trying EC (Elimination Communication) the cotton or bamboo inserts would be perfect to use and i can see the Wizard Duo becoming a very popular nappy for ECing families.

For night time i’ve ALWAYS been a supporter of a two part nappy system as it’s easier to get additional boosters inside and the absorbency of a two part nappy is generally higher anyway. I’ve tested the staydry night time onesize insert with an additonal basic booster and the system lasted her all night without any leaks. The additional booster is put underneath the Wizard  insert so that the staydry layer is still next to baby’s skin. The addtional booster was very wet and the nappy wouldn’t have lasted much longer (was on her 12hours). She is an average wetter but this is the first all in one or all in two system what has ever lasted her all night and i’ve tried MANY combinations. If you have an average wetter and want a slim night time nappy this is a system i’d recommend. Heavy wetters i would still stick with the higher absorbency two part nappy systems.

Drying time for the stay dry inserts are very quick so ideal for people with limited drying facilities. However just a warning, the stay dry inserts feel so dry to the touch make sure they really are dry before you put them away, as they might feel dry but the inner core might still be damp. I learnt to tell by the weight of them.

The idea with all in two nappies is that you just change the insert and use the outer wrap again. There are four poppers to secure the inserts into the Wizard wraps. If you’ve got a wriggly baby it could be a nightmare unpoppering the insert and then fastening a new one in. I got round this by having two wraps on the go and I always had the next one made up ready. My process was taking the soiled nappy off and putting to one side, putting the new nappy on and letting her off to play (or back in the cot or somewhere safe for a younger baby). I’d then unpopper the soiled insert and put it into the bucket and then popper a new insert back into that wrap and leave it ready for the next nappy change.

As the inserts are so slim they don’t take up much room in a change bag so if you like to travel light and find some cloth nappies too bulky for your change bag you’ll like these!

Am I am going to part with my samples…. no way these are now a permanent addition to my nappy system and my first choice for times of teething.
The Wizard range can be bought on the site and the link below takes you to all the parts:
http://www.thenappylady.co.uk/productGallery.asp?topCategoryID=1&subcategoryID=29

Demo video will be available soon.

Wendy Richards

www.thenappylady.co.uk

October 8th, 2011

Online Learning Sites for Children

by NappyLadyUK

Well this was going to be a blog post and video about the new Cuddledry towels The Nappy Lady is stocking. As the Camcorder has been hidden by Mr Nappy Lady (who is also not answering his phone either) this will be a post about some online learning sites we use.

Our eldest is in year 2 and we’re a bit concerned about the level they are teaching him at school. So far this year his homework has been incredibly simple and identical to the homework he did in year 1. As they are taught in mixed year classes (too complicated to explain but has worked well until this term it seems) plus we have a newly qualified teacher this year, we’re not sure if they are easing them in very gently or something isn’t quite right. It’s parents evening next week so we’ll get to the bottom of it.

I support the children’s’ learning at home and like to think of how all those little 20-30mins activities add up over the week and year. I know people who home educates completely but that’s just not for us.  I buy educational workbooks and posters but I find online activities work really well for us too, especially for Maths.  

Many of these online sites are free and Ben likes to use ICT http://www.ictgames.com/ which covers both Literacy and Numeracy. His favourite at the moment is the money game where he has to scan the shopping on the conveyor belt to see the cost and then pay the correct amount using the coins.

Another popular one is the BBC KS1 Bitesize http://www.bbc.co.uk/schools/ks1bitesize/ which again covers Literacy and Numeracy.  I haven’t checked but many moons ago when I worked for WH Smith (well 5 years ago but seems like another lifetime these days) BBC bitesize made some excellent educational guide books too.

I’ve also signed Ben up for a years subscription to www.themathsfactor.com  this is a maths site run by Carol Vorderman and offers him an interactive Maths program which adapts to his learning needs. Unfortunately this is a site you have to pay for (£14.99pm or annual subscription £130) but in relation to the cost of having a private tutor or locally we have a  http://www.explorelearning.co.uk centre, this is very economical. We work through it together, watching Carol’s short videos teaching each new skill and then he gets to practice online. Ben thinks Carol is his math teacher (how cool would that be if she really was your child’s maths teacher – well I think it’d be cool). There are little maths games and maths warm up sections all which just increase the amount of maths he does every day. The aim is to complete five 15-20mins “homework” pieces every week.  Ben is only at key stage 1 so I am able to easily help at this level.  As he goes through school and the maths becomes beyond me (used to be a wiz at balancing algebra equations but couldn’t tell you where to start now) I can see I’ll be relying on the mathsfactor algebra school to help.

I’m sure some of you know some great sites that I haven’t found yet. Please share them with me and I’ll add them to this post.
Wendy Richards

www.thenappylady.co.uk

August 26th, 2011

How to use cloth nappies when out of the house

by NappyLadyUK

Lots of people have this fear of how they will use cloth nappies when they are outside the home. I must admit I was one of them however I soon learnt there was nothing to be scared of.

When I had my first child I used to leave the house with him wearing a cloth nappy but if he needed a change I’d put a disposable on him as it was “easier.” I soon realised though that this was a complete waste of a nappy wrap (I was using 2 part nappies – Totsbots nappy and Motherease wrap), as only the inner nappy needed changing. The outer wrap had been perfectly fine to continue using however I’d end up putting both the nappy and wrap in the wet nappy bag for washing. I then began to take my cloth nappies out with me and when he needed a change I just put a new nappy on and used the same wrap again.

Now six years on and baby number 3 is here, I don’t even question taking cloth nappies with me and I proudly change her into her lovely fluffy nappies.  Nappies have moved on a lot in this time and there are now some fantastically reliable all in ones and pocket nappies which are as near as you can get to disposables. If you are worried about changing cloth when out or having to put a wrap on as well (takes seconds though) then you could use one layer nappies as your changing bag nappies.

I frequently get asked is what to do with the poo when you’re out and if you end up with a really smelly bag.

Even if you use disposables you often get told at playgroups to take your disposable nappies away with you (if I do your tour of the Farnham Toy Library you’ll definitely get a reminder about this). Many halls used for playgroups only have the bins changed weekly and they don’t want smelly disposables left sitting there.  If I have to change a pooey nappy when I’m out and I have access to a toilet, I flush away the pooey paper liner so the poo has gone and all I’m left with is a wet nappy. If I don’t have access to a toilet, then I seal the nappy back up and store it in my wet nappy bag. I will then flush away the pooey paper liner at home.

I store all my soiled nappies in a wet nappy bag. This secures with a drawstring and keeps smells inside but also allows a little air to circulate so the nappies can breathe. If I only have a couple of nappies in the wet nappy bag, when I get home I tip them into my nappy bucket. If the nappy bag is full (i.e. been away for a weekend), then I open the nappy bag and tip all the nappies into my washing machine and do a normal nappy wash (adding any nappies in that might be in my bucket too).

You should also remember than a good cloth nappy is less likely to leak than a disposable. I’d much rather change a pooey cloth nappy, than apooey disposable nappy and pooey clothes!

Wendy Richards

www.thenappylady.co.uk

August 13th, 2011

Results of 5 Days of Skin Salvation Application

by NappyLadyUK

Day 0: This is our middle Son who suffers from nasty eczema and dry itchy skin. He gets it all over his back, top of his arms and legs and all over his bottom. This is how his backed looked before we started to apply any of the Purepotions Skin Salvation. The photo doesn’t show you the full extent of it but he has lots of sore patches and broken skin where he has scratched until he bled. In some places the broken skin is very deep sores.

Day 3: After just 3 days of using Skin Salvation, applied thinly morning and night. He’s stopped scratching and his skin is being able to heal.

Day 4:  Skin continues to improve. Some of the scabs have now come off revealing healed skin below. The deeper scabs remain but are continuing to heal. 

Day 5: Most of the deep scabs have now come off or shrunk dramatically. Darker areas are now scarring but no longer broken skin.

I’m going to continue to apply the Skin Salvation morning and evening (although i didn’t get a chance this morning before they went out) for a few more days while the final scabs heal. Then i’m going to be reducing applying the salve to bed time only. No new patches of sore, dry skin have appeared since i started using the salve.

His skin has never healed with any other cream natural or steriod so i hope you can see why i think this salve is amazing. More details on the Purepotions Skin Salvation are on the website.

Wendy Richards

www.thenappylady.co.uk

August 3rd, 2011

Skin Salvation by PurePotions

by NappyLadyUK

I’ve stocked PurePotions Lavender Nappy Salve for years as a wonderful moisturising nappy barrier cream which promotes healing of nappy rash. Purepotions recently sent me a sample of their Skin Salvation which is designed for dry, irritated skin such as eczema.

I decided to use the Skin Salvation on our Middle Son aged 3 ¾ as he’s suffered with nasty eczema over his back most of his life. During this time he’s been to our GP who keeps prescribing Steriod cream, diprobase or Oilatum, none of these have helped him clear up the eczema and the diprobase makes him howl. It must feel like it’s burning his skin as soon as i’d put it on he was trying to rub it off with a bathroom towel which removed most of the cream and then the towel also irritated his skin further. I told him we’d be trying a new “magic” cream for his back and if it stung he was to say and i’d not put any more on. He stood there and didn’t flinch while i covered his entire back, parts of this legs and upper arms. As it’s a salve rather than a cream a small amount goes a long way. He was very happy after cream time and said he liked the magic cream. He went to bed happy.

Usually when he got up in the morning i could see new scratches or where he’d scratched scabs off. The next morning though i honestly couldn’t see any new ones. I put some more salve on as his back for the daytime as his back was so bad at this point. I repeated putting the salve on night and morning and within a few days his skin was healing and no new scabs or scratches were there. I’d never seen his skin healing before so i was really happy. I kept putting the cream on for just over a month and over this time his backed healed to the point of nothing but scars left from the scratches. He loved having his magic cream and always reminded me to put it on if i forgot. Long gone were the days of chasing him round to do it.

I only had a sample pot so i ran out around 5 weeks. When i ran out i didn’t use anything and within a few days his skin was being scratched. Now about a month on it’s really scabby again and looks sore. I’m waiting for my new pot to arrive and that’s it from now on he’s permanently on Skin Salvation once or twice a day. I’m hopeful that given time the scars will fade on his back.

I spoke to Skin Salvation about the wonderful success i’d had with their product and arranged with them to send me two samples for customers to try. These are their comments so far;

“His skin seems to look much better than it did, its like as though it helps his skin heal much quicker! He is still scratching though but I worry that is more out of habit rather than from the cream. Its a nice change to use a natural cream rather than a steroid cream/ etc… “and another week on the same customer wrote;

“I wish I would have taken before photos of my little boys skin as the difference is amazing! His skin has healed so much and is lovely and soft.. Like a normal baby! He is still scratching, but I am hoping if we continue with the cream he will eventually stop. The massive difference is not having to cover his hands all the time, he has stopped scratching his face and only does if he gets upset. Lots of people have commented how well he looks and how lovely his skin is, so thankyou for this opportunity! I am hoping to order a bigger pot to use soon. ”

“After using it for approx 2 weeks now his skin is amazingly soft! It started looking a bit better after a few days but gradually got better and better, I do find that it needs to be used on the bad areas and a different cream as an all over as its a bit fiddly to apply. He had awful eczema on the backs of his legs in the knee creases and he would end up scratching making it bleed.. Since I’ve been using the salvation the area is completely clear! I am now using it once a day and oilatum after every nappy change and its working wonders! I even tried it on my nose when I had a bit of dry skin from the cold weather last week, made a big difference compared to my usual lotion!”

 Skin Salvation Salve was recently mentioned in the Daily Mail (link to article below) and since then Purepotions has become mainstream. I keep over hearing parents at playgroup and this week a child’s birthday party, talking of this new cream that has improved their childs skin . I no longer ask what cream it is but ask if it’s Skin Salvation and it always is.

Daily Mail Article 

I’m usually very strict on only selling products related to nappies (I am The Nappy Lady after all) however i’m also strict on only stocking products which i know work. I’ve already stocked the Purepotions Lavender Nappy Salve for years and seen it work wonders on nappy rash. Now having witnessed how marvellous the Skin Salvation is on our Son, for once i’m extending my range slightly beyond nappies as i truly believe it’s that good. I really hope you find the Skin Salvation as great as we do. Pre-Orders now being taken for Skin Salvation. First delivery due next week.

Wendy Richards

 www.thenappylady.co.uk

July 15th, 2011

What did you do today?

by NappyLadyUK

My husband James would never dare to ask me “what DID you spend your time doing today?” as he’d get a whole long lecture and break down on EXACTLY what I did. It can be easy for partners who work outside the home to wonder how the stay at home parent didn’t find time to do x y or z.

I had dental surgery today and even though I planned to work (Nappy Lady stuff) and housework as normal I really didn’t feel up to it.  Boy can you tell I had a day off!  I’m writing this from the one tiny corner of our dining table which remains Lego and dinner plate free. To make it out of our dining/living room you have to watch for loose Lego pieces (don’t they hurt if you stand on them), DVDs that the baby has pulled off the shelf, two tennis rackets and balloons the boys have been playing with and various other toy paraphernalia that’s been dragged out by the kids.

From the living room leads into our hall which is just about passable if you walk sideways on past the nappy delivery boxes. These would usually have been unpacked and put away pronto but will have to wait until tomorrow. After the hallway I believe it is the kitchen but right now I’m not too sure what it is!  I think there is a kitchen counter hiding underneath lunch plates, bowls, yoghurt pots, cups etc. These must be sitting on today’s mail which I vaguely remember picking up and opening but definitely didn’t sort out.  The other kitchen counter is hidden under a HUGE pile of dry washing grabbed off the line before it rains tonight (the one job I did manage to do today).

Hubby is out late tonight but I think he’ll be in shock when he arrives home as I’m usually quite fanatical about clear counters and dining table.  So if anyone wonders what I usually do all day it’s clearly visible in our house today J

Kids off to bed in a mo and I won’t be far behind them. Tomorrow operation tidy up.
Wendy